Do you sometimes find it difficult to be clear on what YOU want to do when making decisions?

What if I told you it may not be your fault?

When you try to focus on your choices, do you tend to “hear” other people’s voices telling you what you can’t do, that they need you to do something else, or are they afraid you’ll fail?

Sometimes, we hear the voice of our parents—not their actual voice but a message we learned as children. Or it could be some value we learned from a friend or a boss. Those are just a few of the possible ways we can be influenced by other people in our lives, making it nearly impossible to get the personal clarity we need.

Your well-meaning friends can cloud your clarity.

OR if you are discussing a decision with a friend or family member, they will offer you an opinion. Normally, they mean well. Sometimes, they want to protect you and ensure you don’t do something you’ll fail at.

Other times, they want you to stay exactly as you are so their lives don’t change. I hate to say this, but it’s true: Sometimes, they don’t want you to succeed. This may be because they’re in a competition, or possibly they fear that if you break out of the mold, you’ll leave them behind. They may not even be aware of their reasons for discouraging you. Sometimes, they don’t say a word, but you feel them pulling you down.

Have you ever changed something and had friends and loved ones keep telling you, “This just isn’t you?” They’re having difficulty shifting their perspective of you, and that’s understandable; change is hard.

This constant commentary can cause you to doubt yourself. However, there is also an energy vibration/frequency attached to these comments that tends to make you almost want to pull back into your old pattern or box.

Almost everyone is affected by some of the people in their lives, especially loved ones. If you’re a highly sensitive person, life can be even more challenging in terms of getting personal clarity. Maybe You’re Not Crazy. Perhaps you’re just a highly sensitive person.

Do You Feel Fragmented or at Odds with Yourself when You Must Choose or Make a Decision?

It may not be that you’re just indecisive; you may have some additional invisible challenges to overcome, such as:

1. Take in the thoughts, feelings, energies, and needs of those around you.
2. Your energy field may be “misfiring,” and the way the input comes in is scrambled so that it’s almost impossible to interpret.
3. Fear of making a mistake –  in the past, you’ve made quick decisions, only to realize later it was wrong, and you’d been overly influenced by outside sources.
4. Fear coming from other people.

Painful Decision Process – John’s Story about decision making.

The story of John.  John struggled and was in angst as he attempted to decide if he wanted to trade his silver Shield for a 14k gold Shield. He called once a month, and we’d spend a lot of time reviewing all the pros and cons. A year went by, and still no decision.

Finally, we met at a trade show in San Francisco. I sense energies fairly clearly when people are testing Shields and can give feedback on how that particular Shield affects them. What was happening with John stuck in my mind because it was the first, but not the last, time by any means that I saw this particular energy imbalance.

The Surprising Energy Imbalance – Why it was Nearly Impossible to Make a Decision.

We all have four types of energy around us: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. Normally, we receive and process information from each of these energy bodies and use the compiled information to make an informed decision.

In his case, it was as if he was getting conflicting information from all four sources, none of which were speaking to each other and perhaps all saying conflicting things.

It’s no wonder he had intense difficulty in making decisions.

John put the gold Shield on, and suddenly, everything made sense. I sensed that his entire physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual energy field was completely lined up and in smooth balance. Before that, it seemed that none of these energy bodies was communicating with the others. Normally, we receive and process information from each energy body and use the compiled data to create an informed decision, but in his case, they weren’t “talking.” It was as if he was getting conflicting information from all four sources, thus his intense difficulty in making decisions.

Imagine making decisions without being impacted by others’ energy.

Wearing a BioElectric Shield can Clear Your Energy so You Can Hear Your Inner Guidance.

Wearing a Shield, I’ve found that my inner guidance is much clearer and on-point.  I am no longer “taken over” by others’ energies of excitement, certainty, etc.  I have a “space” where I can hear, ponder what they say, and contrast it to my inner guidance to make my choices more clearly.

The Shield strengthens and balances my energies and deflects both the EMF radiation, which can make focus difficult, but it also deflects other people’s energy. With the Shield, I hear their advice, but I don’t take it in energetically. There’s a big difference here in accessing my own “self-authority”, which I give the Shield a lot of credit for helping me realize.

If you have difficulty making decisions, it may not be your fault. You may be sensitive to others, like Anna. Here’s the good news: You can order a Shield, and if you find it was the wrong decision, you can return it for a refund within 90 days.

This article isn’t meant to be a complete discussion of decision-making. It’s based on my observations, ideas, and customer comments.

Wear a Shield. The Shield deflects other people’s needs, desires, and fears, leaving you beautifully clear and focused. With personal clarity, you can then choose to make a decision based on your own thoughts and heart’s desire. You have taken the direction of your life back into your own hands! Some people call that personal clarity and personal power.

We call it “living your dreams!”

Comment from “Mary” after she got a Level 3 BioShield.

Mary shared her struggle with me. “I struggle to avoid making other people’s thoughts, statements, and insights more important or valid than my own. It is so easy to push out my own and be replaced by theirs. It throws me off balance until I can recapture my own again. And it makes it very hard to draw on my source of knowledge. I try only to ask questions to get different perspectives just before I am ready to act. Does that make sense?”

Before I had a BioShield, I found that I sometimes allowed an outside source to influence me to the point that I overrode some of my core values or beliefs and made decisions based on their values rather than my own. Other times, I just couldn’t sort out my thoughts from all the other thoughts coming in.

Review from Michelle 2 months after getting a Level 3 BioShield.

I’ve had my shield for two months, and I love it. Compared to many these days, I think my EMF exposure is fairly low, although I am not certain how much it affects me. I know that I am sensitive to other people’s energy, and in this, the shield has helped tremendously. I feel a greater sense of calm and presence of mind overall. Soon after receiving the shield, I noticed the first example of this. I was at the dentist’s office, and the dentist was running very late. Ordinarily, I’d be worried about her schedule and feel hurried and flustered. Still, instead, I felt very calm and focused and was able to ask all the questions I came up with, plus several follow-up questions that occurred to me at the time, and as a result, I was able to make grounded decisions. Usually, in this situation, after returning home, I would have remembered things I hadn’t asked and would be second-guessing my decision. This time, I felt completely satisfied. It was so unusual for me that I commented on it later, and that’s when I realized I had been wearing the shield. 

Why a Level 3 or 4 Shield May Help Beyond Just EMF Protection

The silver Shield had helped him with the EMF-related issues of headache and fatigue. Still, the imbalance in his energy field had been so extreme that he needed the additional strength of the gold Shield to fully balance it and help when he had to decide.

I talked to John several months after he started wearing his gold Shield, and he was ecstatic. For the first time in his life, he was finding it quite easy and effortless to make decisions, and his boss was noticing the positive change as well.

Difficulties making decisions? Your energy may need balance and protection.

You may be a Mary or a John. Here’s the good news: You can order a Shield, and if you find that you made the wrong decision, you can return it for a refund within 90 days.

Take our EMF and HSPs quizzes for tips on dealing with your sensitivity and a recommendation for a Shield based on your EMF Exposure. 

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